Bad Guy Compared To Nice Boy - Does Fascination Have Something To Do With Being A Bad Boy Compared To A Nice Guy?

Well, we have all watched that myth - that "nice guys" fail and the 'bad boys" interest women - but I don't think it is necessarily true. At least I don't believe it has anything to do with being a bad boy versus a nice guy.

I feel there are other personality vectors involved that perhaps bad boys and nice guys have that are the establishing qualities of attraction.

Bad boys usually are less shy, but at the same time they are more confident in general than nice guys. I feel that it would be these characters that are attracting a woman not the point that a guy is bad.

I personally almost never use the "bad boy" method when attracting women, I am most always a perfect gentleman. But, I am not an easy guy to hook and women can tell that immediately when talking to me. I am a little reserved, I don't compliment women when I initially meet them or tell them how lovely they are, and most women don't have a clue as to whether I am keen on them or just being nice.

That is what sets me apart from a "nice guy". Women see me as a good gentleman but haven't a clue if I love them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - like that. They are sick and tired of talking to men who flatter them.

Girls like guys who are appealing and unique. Attractive girls don't find guys who tell them how beautiful they are to be exceptional. But a guy who has a pleasant conversation with them without mentioning a word about their good looks verbally or non-verbally - now that is both appealing and unique to a beautiful girl.

Also keep in mind that women have different qualities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique varies from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking female may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how pretty she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a culture of perfect gentlemen, might very well find a guy who talks a little nasty and naughty to be interesting and special. A woman who knows nothing but arrogant and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be a rare interesting and unique find.

You see irrespective of what you are like there is somebody for you. But you have to determine who that someone would be and then try to maximize how you would meet women like that. So no matter if you are a bad boy or a nice guy, put yourself in a state where you are interesting and different to the women you meet and you will be victorious.

One of the toughest things to learn in life is that regardless of what you are like there is always someone who is perfectly well-matched to you. Even if you are boring there are women who are perfectly compatible with that. Not every one likes to meet and hook up with the life of the gathering.

The problem is people who don't accept themselves for who they are, attempt to act differently and they are not being true, so they don't appeal to anyone. Now if you just accept yourself for who you are and act the way you basically are, you will find that there are people who will accept you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are unexciting or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will get a girl who will accept you for who you are.

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